Community standards

How we hold this space.

Playdait exists to help moms build real friendships and plan family time. Our community is centered on women and mothers — female-owned and mother-run. These are the few things we ask of everyone who comes in.

  1. 1

    Be who you say you are

    Your real first name, your real area, 18+. One profile per person.

  2. 2

    Kindness, always

    Disagree with care. No put-downs, no shaming of anyone's choices — feeding, schooling, working, staying home.

  3. 3

    What's shared here stays here

    No screenshots or reposts of Circle posts or messages without the author's yes.

  4. 4

    Kids' privacy comes first

    Share your own children only. Never post another family's child, name or school.

  5. 5

    No selling in the rooms

    Mom-led businesses are welcome in the Circles made for them — not in DMs or other rooms. No romantic or sexual approaches, ever.

  6. 6

    Meet with care

    First meetups in public places. Trust your instincts.

  7. 7

    Breastfeeding is welcome here

    Feeding your baby is never against our standards.

  8. 8

    Ask for help when it's heavy

    Every Circle has a support card with crisis resources. If someone is in danger, call 911.

When something's off

Block or report from any profile or message. Reports are about behavior — harassment, selling, unsafe or unkind conduct, a fake profile, or a child's safety. A real person reads every report, and anything hidden automatically is reviewed by a person. Breaking these standards can mean a warning, removal of a post, or removal from Playdait.

You do it all for everyone else. Playdait is for you, Mama.